I’ve been to a few swinger parties in my life, and I have to say that they’re an amazing experience. The first time I went, I was nervous as hell but once things got started, I realized how much fun it can be. Whether you’re watching or participating in a threesome with two other people or just watching others go at it on stage—you’ll quickly forget all about how nervous you felt when you got there.
You might have had an exhibitionist streak in you all along. It’s not something that can be planned for or expected, but it happens when you least expect it. You might just find yourself enjoying the experience without even realizing that it was one of your deepest desires.
You don’t have to be a swinger or into swinging at all! You could just be someone who likes being nude outside and doesn’t mind if other people see them naked too–and that’s perfectly fine! There are plenty more ways for us to express our sexuality than just sex alone (although that’s great too).
Sex in front of others is exciting, but for many people it is scary as well.
Have you ever made love in front of other people?
For many, this is a question that makes them uncomfortable and nervous. For others, it’s something that they have always wanted to do but never had the courage to try. It all depends on how open or closed-minded each individual person is about sex and their own sexuality. For some people, having sex in front of others is very exciting and fun; for others, it can be scary or even traumatic!
It’s not for everyone – some people are more comfortable than others when it comes down to having sex with multiple partners at once (or even one partner). Some swingers parties are geared towards couples looking for another couple or single female/male who would like company while having intercourse out loud; whereas other swinger events might allow both single men AND single women into their private rooms where there aren’t any rules regarding who goes where – meaning anything goes as long as everyone involved agrees beforehand!
It’s not uncommon to feel a lot of anxiety before the party but once it gets started, you’ll feel comfortable and relaxed.
It’s not uncommon to feel a lot of anxiety before the party but once it gets started, you’ll feel comfortable and relaxed. The more you do it, the easier it gets.
The more comfortable you feel, the more you will enjoy it!
A good attitude is key for a successful night at a swinger’s party.
A good attitude is key for a successful night at a swinger’s party. You need to be comfortable with your own sexuality, open-minded and willing to try new things, able to laugh at yourself (and others), and ready for anything that might happen.
If you’re nervous about going to such an event, try thinking of it as a sex-themed dinner party where everyone wears their best clothes instead of pajamas or sweatpants. In fact, wearing sexy lingerie under your regular clothes will make things easier because other people will assume that this is what they are supposed to do too!
It’s not necessarily something that you can plan for either; it might just happen when you least expect it.
Have you ever made love in front of other people? I have, and it’s not something that can be planned for. Sometimes it just happens when you least expect it. Other times, you are already planning it at a party or an adults only resort.
The first time was at a swinger’s party, which sounds like an odd choice for someone who isn’t into exhibitionism or swinging but actually turned out to be an exciting experience for both my partner and myself. While there are certainly risks involved with sex in front of others (like getting caught), if both partners are open-minded about things like this then it can definitely be worth trying!
Our mutual friend invited us over one night after work; he said his girlfriend wanted us there because she had heard about our adventures together. He didn’t mention anything else until we arrived at their apartment building and saw two cars parked outside–one belonging to them and one belonging to another couple who were also coming over tonight! We felt excited but also nervous at first; after all these years together I still wasn’t sure how far we could go without crossing any boundaries between us as individuals who already knew each other well enough before getting ourselves involved with strangers…
So, have you ever had sex in front of other people? If so, how did it make you feel? What were the circumstances that led up to it? Did anything unexpected happen during or after the experience? Let us know in the comments.
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